Your Path to Healing From Betrayal Starts Here.

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And discover the next steps you can take to reclaim your peace, confidence, and self-worth.

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If you scrolled down this far, it’s probably safe to say you’re someone who’s discovered your husband has betrayed you.

Perhaps you just found out and it feels like your life has suddenly shattered and everything you thought was true, suddenly feels like a lie. 

Or maybe you feel like you are in limbo, waiting to see if he is going to do the work necessary to heal your marriage. You may be wondering if you should stay or go and if it is even possible to heal and get to the other side.

Or you could be at a place where the outcome of your marriage is clear — whether you stayed married or got divorced — and you are now working to pick up the pieces, focus on your own healing, and create a new life and future for yourself, with or without your husband. 

No matter where you are, you may be struggling with how this became story — your life. You didn’t sign up for this — and you probably never thought that this would happen to you.

You might feel stuck and some days, you might wonder if you will ever heal.

I know because I’ve been in your shoes…

the coach

Hi! I’m Tammy Gustafson.

I’m a betrayal trauma coach, writer, and speaker. I’ve also been a licensed professional counselor specializing in trauma and PTSD for more than 15 years.

But nothing prepared me for the work I do more than my own experience of being betrayed by my husband.

When life “blew up,” I felt utterly lost. Unsafe. Shattered. 

The question that kept circling inside my head: “What do you do when the person you’re supposed to trust the most in this world is now the very one who hurt you the deepest ?”

However, I can tell you, as both a counselor that’s helped hundreds of women and as someone who’s healed from betrayal, finding your way back to freedom and wholeness is possible.

(Maybe not easy — but possible.)

I’m here to show you how.

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You want to get unstuck and heal.

You want lightness and freedom back in your life. To feel peaceful and worthy of love.

You need practical advice on how to handle the day-to-day situations when your husband gaslights you or blames you for your actions.

And you want to establish healthy boundaries and start saying “no” to what doesn’t serve you.

If this is you, I invite you to uncover the first steps to wholeness by listening to some of my most recent podcast interviews.

If you just need to hear that you’re not alone and that all the up, down, and sideways feelings are completely normal — or if you’re looking for tangible steps you can start taking today towards purpose and healing — these podcast episodes will help you.