Blog | Tammy Gustafson

You never thought you’d have this conversation. Your sister/daughter/best friend just told you her husband had an affair, or she just discovered his pornography addiction. She is shocked, angry, and scared. You are shocked, too, having absolutely no idea what to do. What do you say? What do you ... READ the POST

Betrayal

3 Secrets to Finding the Right Betrayal Counselor

I’m going to tell you a secret… Most counselors have no idea what to do with betrayal. Let me pause to say I have the utmost respect for my fellow counselors and coaches. They are dedicated and passionate about helping their clients. Some of my favorite people are mental health providers, and ... READ the POST

From my very first session, Tammy began to show me that the pain, humiliation, and anger of my husband's betrayal did not have to define my identity in the future. Throughout this difficult healing process, Tammy has been trustworthy and has made me feel seen and understood. - BF

Working with Tammy around betrayal trauma has been a massive part of my healing journey. Tammy has an incredible gift of listening to my needs and where I am in the process. Her expertise, along with her wisdom and life experience, offer me a safe place to share and I know she cares as she coaches me through invaluable steps towards healing. - KR

I began working with Tammy when I discovered my husband’s betrayal of our 35-year marriage. Tammy has helped me navigate through some of the darkest days of my life by assisting me in gathering tools to utilize and helping me think properly about my healing and recovery. Establishing boundaries, prioritizing self-care and self-protection, extending forgiveness, and learning how to love myself again have been invaluable to me in this healing process. Tammy has been by my side every step of the way. - LA

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